How To Master Online Ad Posting* R# u- J8 K8 H% o6 O
From Jeff Cohen,. Y# C g* h/ E! d
Your Guide to Dating.
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. D) t' t" u; \: J' PYou can be the catch of the century, but if your online ad posting is poorly written, no one will contact you. Follow these steps to write an eye-catching, date-grabbing profile.3 O1 N1 E* l8 O- ?, v- E
Difficulty: Easy+ Z- `$ }# M& H
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Time Required: 30 minutes" C# L4 j! A+ F- q& g, i1 Y! b! I
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Here"s How:7 Q, L( `% b" e1 W3 a) p8 T
1. Be honest about your age.
7 O3 ], j0 |- b/ e8 j# e3 nList your actual age; there"s no need to be defensive or dishonest.4 i% x }" @) I% y& v
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Submit a quality, current photograph of yourself, but nothing that wildly misrepresents your actual appearance." d ^* E4 S3 j- L5 A3 Y% R1 u6 c
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3. Describe yourself accurately.
& {5 G4 p5 x' E4 jAnswer questions honestly about your height, weight, race, religion, etc. Be accurate, not deceptive. Accurate: "I"m six feet, 180 pounds, with short brown hair and glasses." Deceptive: "I"m an intellectual Adonis."4 Q' q7 v9 L4 J7 @" e
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/ s4 Q4 J% |4 v5 n4. Come across optimistic.3 s; O, U' `$ Y
Write in an upbeat style. Similarly, don"t apologize for posting. Be positive and assertive.$ r7 a$ F5 ^( |4 P
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$ F6 u6 B4 P8 NFormat your posting so it"s easy to read. In other words, make your sentences and paragraphs brief. Also, don"t stuff your postings with words; that"s a turn off. Make sure you leave plenty of white space.* P: r7 N$ {4 t
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6. Avoid spelling mistakes.
. a( ?: M% b* I) N, x) s8 FSpell-check your posting.7 f- a1 c# Y+ H- [# ^; M( @" k
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Be clear about why you"re posting. If the person reading your requirements doesn"t fit them, they shouldn"t waste their time reading further.9 {6 I6 l( l/ P8 F5 B9 K$ Z
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Explain what makes you who you are. Use adjectives and add detail, i.e., "I"m a playful 32 year old architect who likes to relax by reading mystery novels."
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Share what you like best in a partner. Don"t be negative or cruel. Instead, say what you want, i.e., "A guy who knows the difference between Monet and Manet, yet can also clean-and-press a 150 pound barbell."0 y& Q/ u q$ ?% V# j D
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When you respond to others" posts, show them that you actually read what they wrote, and aren"t just turned on by their picture or physical description.& B- A7 _ F& z- N" R$ e" A
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Computer with Internet access* a2 v) g& t$ d& P+ X; Z( ~" f
Subscription to an online dating website
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